On stretching

Stretching is quintessential to a bodybuilder, an athlete, to anyone. The body constantly begs to be stretched. All the more for those who lift heavy weights and put their bodies through rigorous exercise routines.

Turning a "FWB" into a relationship

Are Christians supposed to judge?

Dating an abused girl

Recently I was reading an article on the ex porn starlet Sasha Grey. For some reason this girl has been accepted into mainstream Hollywood as a famous porn star. I really don't know why exactly, so far, all I know that she has done for entertainment is take it like a slut and have an opinion on things. Maybe a woman with a brain is grounds for fame in this chauvinistic and exploitative society. Regardless, there is a certain intrigue here; namely, that a cute young slut can make you explode six ways from Sunday, yet still be cool enough to smoke weed and talk about classic books.

This reminded me of my ex, Jesse. Jesse was your typical party slut. Abused at 10, she curtailed her social anxiety by smoking marijuana at just the tender young age of 14. This is not abnormal. I myself smoked my first bowl at age 12. Maybe its a 90's kid thing. But there is a certain allure to these type of females. Looking back I can recommend not to fall in love with one of these type of girls because of their unpredictable and often dangerous behavior. These types of girls look up to Marylin Monroe as a sort of role model for her outspokenness and sexuality. However, in my opinion this use of intellect and philosophy is a waste of talent and is mostly used to cover up the truth that these young women are highly promiscuous and in my ex girlfriend's case; shady. Why can't these women get help? Because society too often eats its young. Bad parenting leads to the creation of monsters. Many of which turn to prostitution and pornography as a means to support themselves because of their lack of parental influence.

Some of these young women are lucky like my ex, who had two, well-off parents who support them monetarily. However, because of their rape, or molestation, these young women often turn to social deviancy, and are attracted to negative elements of life. Gang life, pimp/prostitute type relationships, and seeking the thrill and danger of breaking the law. Or simply enjoying drugs, alcohol, promiscuity, and parties. I have seen it again and again. This is a part of society that is a highway to produce social monsters respectively.

My experience with dating an abused girl, was really only recognized when I dated a girl who was not abused. The subtle differences are often imperceptible at first sight. Sick people have a way of coming off as very normal, or even better than normal. They can make you feel better about yourself. And, of course if you're having sex with one, she can make you feel like a god. Nothing strokes the male ego harder than a woman who knows how to be submissively sexual. Ask around and your man friends will tell you that the best sex they ever had was with a damaged girl. Whether it be she was raped, molested, or grew up poor and slutty for whatever reason, often the best type of raunchy, porn status, sex is with a slutty young party girl.

That being said, what is the real truth behind these girl's modus operandi? Well, I can say that an abused person has somehow psychologically 'checked-out' so to speak. Often, when a young child or teen is abused, that abuse can be held as deep, psychological trauma that often translates into social deviancy or hyper sexuality. Having many sexual partners is dangerous. Yet, some young women live and thrive off of this type of danger. Add a comfortable financial situation and you have true potential for an array of potential banes. Tie this into an already sick upper class system in America, and you have potential disaster.

I say this from experience with my ex girlfriend who was just this prototype of a person. But what about a girl with this past that doesn't have money? Well, these are the porn stars, the escorts, and the straight up street walking prostitutes that we see from time to time in certain parts of our city.

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On the golden rule

If you're going to sin you might as well do it to the best of your ability. I would at least gage the consequences of your actions and try to look at that possible choice in an objective light outside of your current subjective feelings. Your emotions change often.. It sounds to me like your mind is made up already and nothing will stop you, but try to think about the repercussions of your actions. If it's only personal; meaning you will only hurt yourself, then that's one thing. If you don't care about yourself and your future (i.e. you're suicidal, or at least don't care if you die), then go ahead and do it, as long as it doesn't hurt others. But remember, if you do something to jeopardize your own life, then you hurt all those around you who love and care about you.

But if it hurts other people directly, then you have no right to do what you're planning on doing. Whatever "sin" it may be.

All sin is "guilty" sin in a way. Regardless of whether you feel bad about it. But then, some people do things that others consider sin and they feel fine about it. Each person has a different barometer of sin. But in general follow the golden rule. If you hurt others in any way then what you're doing is without a doubt wrong and you should stop or not do it at all.

In general things pertaining to sex, entertainment, and making money have been deemed as "sinful" in the religious communities. However harmful these may be potentially, in reality these these are often benign and harmless. It depends on how you use them, again, think about the golden rule.